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The Suprising Ingredient To Successful Marriages: Kahlil Gibran

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Here’s your second soul-nourishing instalment from Kahlil Gibran’s spiritual bible, The Prophet – this time on marriage.

\\ Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Give your hearts but not into each other’s keeping.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cyprus grow not in each other’s shadow \\

How Can You Apply This In Your Daily Life?

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So next time you’re tempted to over-analyse, overbear or overcrowd to keep hold of love, reframe that thought and remember that healthy love leaves space to breathe, move and – just – wait – and – see.

Resist that temptation to be, do and have everything – together – all the time – for it is in absence and longing that desire takes root and appreciation grows.

And should you ever feel out of control, as vulnerability has us all at times in the hands of love, remember – it is in relinquishing control that we gain control – in trusting that we develop trust – and in giving that we receive.