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Moving Abroad: South Africa






Ever dreamed about moving abroad but don’t have the foggiest where to start?

With so many countries to explore, considering a move abroad can be overwhelming. From visa requirements and researching new job markets to finding friends and housing, upping sticks can seem pretty intimidating. But it doesn’t have to be.

That’s where Gazing Girl comes in.

In a series of short interviews with guys and girls like us who have moved abroad to France, Spain, Singapore, Australia and beyond, we hope to give you the push to follow your dreams.

Next stop, South Africa. Over to you, Natasha…


Can You Tell Us A Bit About You?

I grew up in the UK but moved to South Africa after I finished school and spent almost a decade between Cape Town and Luanda (Angola). During my time in Africa, I completed my University studies at UCT (University of Cape Town), spent 3 years working in the recruitment world before deciding to become a full time yoga teacher! I now live in Chamonix and I’m a Yoga Alliance qualified teacher and a MYYO Practitioner. I currently run Viva Yoga Chamonix and I’m really enjoying my new alpine-based life!

What Inspired You To Move Abroad?


Through-out my school days I dreamt of moving abroad. I was born into a family with an insatiable thirst for sunshine and warm climates so I spent a lot of time chasing the sun as a child! I remember one occasion when we were on holiday in Vasiliki, Greece and we woke up on our first day to overcast skies. After checking the forecast my mother hired a car and drove us 50 kilometres to the other end of the peninsula just to catch some rays.

So after a trip to sunny South Africa in my gap year, the draw of university life in Sheffield of Bristol sort of lost its’ appeal! ;)

What Are The Vital Statistics Of South Africa?

south-africa-map-facts2The Republic of South Africa is found in the southern region of Africa next to Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, Mozambique, Lesotho and Swaziland. About 45 million people live there.

The biggest city is Johannesburg and the capitals are Cape Town, Pretoria and Blomfontein. This is because the government is based in Pretoria, the parliament is in Cape Town and the Supreme Court is Bloemfontein.

The 11 national languages include Afrikaans, English and Zulu and perhaps the most well-known South African is Nelson Mandela – the president from 1994 until 1999. The current president is Jacob Zuma.

How Did You Manage The Change?


I was 19 at the time so making friends and adapting to a new life was easy for me. South Africa is full of warm, friendly people so settling into Cape Town life was not too challenging. I made an effort to enjoy the outdoors because South Africa is spectacular in that respect.  

What’s Been The Biggest Highlight?


There are too many to single out just one – the beaches, the wildness, the parties, the people, the lifestyle!

What’s Been The Biggest Challenge?


Distance from family was hard. Although Cape Town is on more-or-less the same time zone as the UK, it’s still an expensive trip home and a long journey so I only saw my family once or twice a year.

What Has Surprised You Most About The Country?

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The diversity. I had very little idea about South Africa’s intricate history, the controversy of Apartheid and everything that stemmed from it. Considering how recent a democracy South Africa is (only since 1994), the country has remained in a relatively peaceful state of unity…

What’s Your Favourite Aspect Of The Country?

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The diversity – South Africa really is the “Rainbow Nation”.

What’s Your Least Favourite Aspect Of The Country?


The extreme inequality and the juxtaposition of rich and poor. It is quite a shock the first time you fly into Cape Town, for example, and you fly over the luxurious estates and huge houses in the wealthy suburbs and then as you approach closer you see an endless sprawl of shacks as far as the eye-can-see (“The Cape Flats”).

What’s The Biggest Difference To The UK?


Colour. South Africa is an immensely colourful country and somehow the UK seems so black and white in comparison… excuse the obvious play on words.

Did You Have A Stereotype Of The People In Your Mind And How Did Reality Reflect This?


I really had no idea what the expect.  At 19 I hadn’t really met a lot of South Africans before so I didn’t go in with any particular pre-conceived idea of what to expect.  However I didn’t realise the extent of the damage of Apartheid on race relations in the country.

What Is The Foreign Job Market Like?


Quite a challenge and a little bit complicated. If you are moving with a big global company then they will work out your visa related issues for you. If you are looking to work for a smaller company or to start up something as a foreigner in South Africa then the challenges are substantial. The government are trying to ensure that South Africans receive jobs first so you, as a non South African citizen, need to prove that you have skills over-and-above that of a South African citizen relevant to the particular job. For instance, being able to speak multiple languages or experience dealing with a very specific issue.

How Hard Is It To Get A Visa?


Visa’s are quite tricky. A study visa is relatively straight forward to acquire but work visas are a long and paperwork heavy process. My application took 9 months to be issued even with the help of a private Visa expert.

What Would You Do Differently Looking Back?


I would have travelled more within South Africa. I explored the Western Cape extensively as well as Mpumalanga but I would have definitely liked to have explored the East Coast a bit more. I went up the Garden Route a few times which is spectacular but I never went up as far as Durban. The Drakensberg mountains nearer central South Africa are incredible and I would definitely like to head back and explore them some day.

What’s Next For You?




Continuing on my yoga adventure with my company, Viva Yoga Chamonix! It’s hard to find more peaceful surrounds than the Mont-Blanc Valley. And while it’s quite a change from life in South Africa, it was time to move on after almost a decade living at the most southern point of Africa.

How Can We Contact You?

20130702contactlarge through my website or on +33 (0) 6 42 90 18 04.

What’s Your Favourite Quote?


“Love is all we are, the rest amounts to nothing” Anon.

And My Favourite Yogi Quote For Good Measure…


“Every tomorrow is determined by every today” -  Paramahansa Yogananda




The Vallée Blanche: An Unforgettable Day





“The starting point of all achievement is desire”

Napolean Hill

I’m not what you’d expect from a girl who’s lived in Chamonix for 4 months. You’d think I’d be a whizz on the skis by now but I’m not afraid to admit that I remain pretty average… Some things click, others don’t and that old chestnut, fear, hasn’t quite been conquered slope-side yet. Which is what made yesterday all the more magical.

A Journey Into The Unknown

Doing The Vallée Blanche, Chamonix’s well-known off-piste ski route – 20km long with a vertical descent of 2700m – was something I was determined to do. I knew I probably wasn’t good enough, I knew it would be tough and frightening but most of all I knew that I’d really regret not doing it before leaving.


As you can see from the pictures above and below, the views are stunning, with the high mountainous plains providing a sense of wilderness like nothing I’ve ever experienced. It didn’t matter that I nearly toppled down the side of a mountain at one point or that I was tethered like a horse to my patient companion, Mowgli, down the narrow descent at the start – this was a once in lifetime experience I wasn’t prepared to wimp out on. And boy was it worth it.


Journeying into the largest glaciated domain in the Alps, the Mont Blanc massif, was nothing short of sublime. The sheer scale of the mountains and the giddy heights which see you looking down upon the puffy white clouds is incredible, swamping worries like little ants. No matter how bumpy the slopes were in parts, no matter how many wobbles I had, I couldn’t help laughing at myself – even more so during those moments tinged with terror. My anxieties simply felt so small compared to the grandeur around me.

A fitting end to an unforgettable few months.


How Can You Apply This In Your Daily Life?

Next time you’re feeling overwhelmed or weighed down by anxiety, go to nature. The sound of the stream, the bark of the trees, the scale of the mountains – they heal souls. The beauty of nature cracks you open like a nut and relieves those man-made worries which so easily weigh you down.







Moving Abroad: Montpellier, France






Ever dreamed about moving abroad but don’t have the foggiest where to start?

With such an array of choice from Europe to Indonesia and beyond, considering a move abroad can be overwhelming. Whether immigration requirements and researching new job markets to making new friends and the cost of living, upping sticks can seem a real minefield. But it doesn’t have to be.

That’s where Gazing Girl comes in.

In a series of short interviews with UK guys and girls who have moved abroad to France, Spain, Singapore, Australia and beyond, we hope to give you the push to follow your dreams.

Over to you Jess…


Can You Tell Us A Bit About You?


I’m 31 years old. I moved to Milan (Italy) after Uni, then to Montpellier (France) the year after that in 2007, and have been here ever since.

I’ve been working as a fitness instructor since 2009 after having done a training course here in France and also teach English at the architecture university. I studied languages (French and Italian) at Birmingham University in the UK.

What Inspired You To Move Abroad?


My parents have always brought us on I holiday to the South of France (they are retired language teachers) and my elder sister has loved in Montpellier for about twice as much time as I have.

I started thinking about living in France when I was a child. I’d always seen myself living here, but can’t really explain why. Happy childhood holidays probably have a major part to play in it and I also love the idea of living somewhere where I am ‘different’. I also love speaking a foreign language and even though my French is now fluent, I still learn new things.

How Big Is Montpellier?


Montpellier is the 8th largest city in France and the fastest growing city there in the last 25 years. Located on the south coast on the Mediterranean sea, it’s the third-largest French city on the Mediterranean coast after Marseille and Nice, with a population of around 600,000 people.

How Did You Manage The Change?


The change seemed quite natural for me as I had always seen myself living in France or abroad. I already knew the south of France pretty well and already knew that I loved what it had to offer; the views, smells, tastes and activities…

What’s Been The Biggest Highlight?


In Montpellier I would have to say the weather is probably the best highlight. It’s a particularly sunny region. I also fell in love for the first time ever…

What’s Been The Biggest Challenge?


The break up of said love…

What Has Surprised You Most About The Country?


The amount of undeclared work that is available even in quite well-placed job positions (lawyers, pharmacists, dentistry…)

What’s Your Favourite Aspect Of The Country?


The language is gorgeous and once you begin to master it, it’s magical.

The French are very proud of their country and rightly so. Across the country there is such a huge and spectacular variation of landscapes and this aspect goes even further when we consider French territories such as Guadeloupe, Martinique, La Reunion and Corsica.

I also snowboard as the Alps are a mere 3 or 4 hours away and the Pyrenees more or less the same. However, as a snowboarder I definitely prefer the Alps. From Montpellier you can drive to Spain in about 2 and a half hours.

During summertime I have the choice of the beach or the river!

What’s Your Least Favourite Aspect Of The Country?


The French elitist attitude that for something to be good it has to be ‘made in France’. Maybe also the number of people who smoke, although this does seem to be decreasing.

What’s The Biggest Difference To The UK?

The mentality of the French is maybe a little less open-minded than in the UK. People can be quick to judge and be critical on appearance.

In the UK it is far too easy to buy junk food. I’m not saying junk food is hard to come by in France but it is much harder than in the UK. I definitely consider this a positive difference!

The social scene is also totally different. The French don’t drink in the same way as people in the UK and going out starts much later – around 9pm onwards depending on the event and time of year. Nightclubs only get busy from around midnight until 4 or 5 am.

How Did You Find Making New Friends?


I already had my sister here so knew some of her friends and then met the English speaking crowd of Montpellier.

After about a year of this group of people, I found that these people weren’t really ‘right’ for the lifestyle I wanted and I was sometimes ‘friends’ with people simply because we spoke the same language in a foreign country. After a while I realised that this wasn’t necessarily enough for me to base true friendships on and gradually broke away from that circle and made my own friends who are mainly all French.

I find that in Montpellier it can be quite difficult to find true friends. There are too many people who are here for a short time so just as you become great friends, he or she is off to another destination.

What Is The Foreign Job Market Like?


Montpellier in particular isn’t great for jobs. There are few well paid jobs and a lot of job seekers but Montpellier is one of the fastest growing cities in France. This means that while there are more people, the number of jobs hasn’t grown at the same rate. France also requires a lot of French qualifications and doesn’t always accept foreign diplomas or qualifications. The system is quite rigid which means that for foreigners, depending on the sector, it can be hard to find work.

As a fitness instructor I have 3 long term contracts and as an English teacher I have a long term contract which can be hard to come by.  English teaching on a long term and well paid basis is hard to find here.

Do You Get Homesick?


Flying home to the UK (Southampton, in my case) is fairly easy with an airport in Montpellier with low cost flights to Gatwick and Stansted. Nimes and Marseille are other possibilities. Nimes is a 40 minute drive from Montpellier and Marseille is approximately 1 hour 20 minutes. I’ve also flown from Beziers and Carcassone to Bournemouth on low cost flights. However these routes only operate during summer periods.

How Hard Is It To Get A Visa?


As a UK national, no visa is required to live in France.

What Would You Do Differently Looking Back?



What Advice Would You Give To Someone Thinking About Moving Abroad?


Do it!

Don’t be afraid of the language barrier. It’s something that can rapidly change over time and as English speakers it is rarely a major problem and can in fact often be an advantage. However if you are planning to move for a specific job, make sure your qualifications match up to the job you’re planning on moving for or that they are recognised in France. This includes university degrees.

What’s Next For You?

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I think I will be staying in Montpellier for at least the next couple of years and probably in the same jobs. I hope to buy a place instead of renting but I have to work my way round the banks first!!

How Can We Contact You?


Via email ( or Facebook (Jessica Cole).

What’s Your Favourite Quote?


10 Of The Most Colourful Places On Earth






From stunning purple lavender fields in France and candy coloured homes in Italy to Senegal’s bubblegum pink oceans, here are 10 Of The Most Colourful Places On Earth, brought to you by Pure Wow.





Mountain Healing





A Starry-Eyed Sight

I have a ‘wow’ moment every Saturday evening driving back from Geneva to Chamonix.

The mountains are spectacular by day but even more so by night, I’d say.

What Gives Mountains Such Dreamy Drama?


Maybe it’s their snowy peaks illuminated against the night sky or the stars sparkling a little brighter against their sleeping summits. Or maybe it’s the way they wrap themselves around you, imposing and protective all at once as you drive through the valley towards your cosy bed – almost indiscernible but definitely there – stillness and drama combined.

How Do Mountains Nourish The Soul?


Whatever it is, it’s sublime – and a relieving reminder of how small we are in a big world.

Happy Monday All :)

#mountains #nature #peace




Paris In Pictures

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Check out Paris In Pictures here through Carin Olsson’s beautiful shots for Conde Nast Traveller. A talented Swedish photographer who left Sweden to stay in Paris for a few months, it’s clear to see why she couldn’t tear herself away…

Carin’s blog @parisinfourmonths can be seen here.

#paris #romance #beauty #love

16 Roof Terraces Worldwide You Have To See!




Where’s Your Dream Summer Destination?

Poolside, Caribbean cocktail in hand, surfing across beautiful, frothy waves in Hawaii, or whiling away a sunset on a roof terrace overhanging city lights? I could happily indulge in all three, but found myself with plenty of opportunity to sample the latter last year, hopscotching from roof terrace to roof terrace across Madrid. 

What’s So Heady About Being On A Roof?!

The best thing about rooftops is the sense of space and freedom that you find high above the crowds of craziness down below. Peaceful, glamorous (and sometimes with a price tag to match), these treasures really are some of my favourite places on Earth. What’s more, they usually come with cracking views over beautiful cityscapes and warm, starlit climates to match. Romance at its best.

Searching For A Cure For the Monday Blues?

This is a beautiful slide show from Architectural Digest, featuring some of the world’s best designed rooftops. From Miami and Mumbai to Madrid, Chamonix and Paris, these are high points in more ways than one.

I seem to be doing a pretty good job of following them around the world and look forward to sampling Le Panoramic in Chamonix very soon :)



Chamonix In Pictures


Four weeks in Chamonix and I’ve survived belly-flopping face-down into the snow (unwitnessed – small mercy), breaking a pair of skis (apparently pretty hard to do at my ‘level’), four hour-long hikes and learning to cook. Those are some of the lows (not really).

The highs are a no-brainer. The daily intake of scenery is nothing short of spectacular. From snow-drenched forests and lake-side views clearer than glass, to breath-taking glaciers heaped in ice-like lava and heavenly amounts of cheese and wine (raclette, fondue, fondue, raclette), this is a place to spend a while.

Below are a few snaps of the pretty little town that goes by the name of Chamonix. A town which is bigger than I’d imagined, where St Bernard dogs drink out of fountains and vin chaud is consumed like water. I can see why the Romantics came here to feel better.


1. Chamonix Centre


The quaint little valley town is flanked by the Alps, billowing and calm all to once.




A stretch of the main shopping street which typifies Chamonix rural-chic. As one of the more prestigious ski resorts, it’s no surprise it’s on the pricier end of the scale…


The ultimate Christmas location… Chamonix by night.


La Calèche, a well-known restaurant in Chamonix centre, is one of three excellent restaurants owned by a local entrepreneur. Lined with wood and pictures a-plenty, it’s a super cosy place to while away an evening.

2. The Sky Line



The views from Brevent, one of the most popular skiing areas in the valley.


First day back on the slopes after ‘the accident’.


Trees, trees and more trees, this is the perfect place for nature-lovers and tree huggers.

3. The Glacier



The view of Glacier des Bossons and its icy, pale turquoise covering. Not a bad way to start your day.


The view of Chamonix from above, nestled between the Alps.

4. Para-Gliding and Rock-Climbing



Hiking down the mountain after my ‘accident’, I stumbled across these para-gliders setting sail across the pistes. Although things could only get better after ‘Incident Whiplash’, this was definitely the high-point of the day.



Rock-climbing in Gaillands between Chamonix Centre and Les Houches. Cold on the hands but super fun.

5. The River


The River L’Avre runs the length of Chamonix. Not a bad view from home and lovely to wake up to the rushing sounds of nature.


6. The Lake


The stunning Lake Gaillands with its mirror-like reflection of the mountains is hard to beat for wow factor.

7. The Forest



The Gaillands Forest nestles behind the lake and is a beautiful place for a run.

8. Hiking A-Plenty


Innocuous this may look, but this was the scene of a four hour hike that may have involved more than a literal stumbling block… The moral of the tale… don’t forget to use your poles properly… and be prepared to feel unfit even if you count yourself ‘sporty’ (I blame the altitude…)

Interesting fact – hiking is, apparently, a wonderful form of couples’ therapy (presumably the making up part makes up for the arguments which ensue on the way up)!



A little friend I found on the easier hike near Les Bossons. Surrounded by snow-covered trees, this really is Christmas Heaven. Like something from Narnia, I half expected elf-like animals to hop out from the undergrowth. Scenery like this is the perfect distraction from exercise!

9. The Slopes

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In the bubble on the way up Brevent to the safety of the blues slopes. Never trust a man who tells you to go on a black run on day one… Bad idea…


One of the chair lifts on Brevent where blue slopes abound – perfect for experts in clumsiness such as myself.


The skis I managed not to break…

And last but not least….

10. Apres Ski O’Clock


Tick tock tick tock – vin chaud o’clock. Whatever the hour, with bars a-plenty slope-side, elevensies and afternoon ‘tea’ abound!



Some delicious treats from a local bakery… A dangerous place to pass with an empty stomach…

French Word Of The Day!


Exiger - To demand / require

Wider Context

Le rétablissement du pays va exiger un engagement de la communauté internationale - Restoring the country will require the commitment of the international community.

Nous avons le droit de les poser et d’exiger des réponses des autorités américaines - We have a right to ask questions and demand answers from the US authorities.

exiger qch – to insist on stg

exiger beaucoup de – to make great demands on sb

exiger son dû – to demand one’s pound of flesh